I have been letting my ex talk to the kids over the phone on a daily basis over the Christmas break.
I don't have a problem with him speaking to them over a phone given that it is safe and doesn't intrude on me too much. I am kind enough to let him do this, but no-one gives me credit for this.
Everyone always assumes that the mother is the trouble-maker, not the father. This is sexism!
Even my parents can't admit all the compromises I make for my ex.
Sometimes I wonder if its even worth it. Maybe I should simply be a bitch and not care what people think.